No holds all the power
One of the most powerful sentences is ‘No’ Many of us are weak when it comes to saying ‘no’ to someone else’s request. We are afraid that it might: Hurt their feelings Embarrass them Offend them Upset them Disappoint them Anger them Noticing a trend there? It seems that the lack of use is all about ‘them.’ Where do we draw the line and accept the fact that we are no longer going to be someone else’s doormat? How many times have you bought something you really didn’t want just to make the other person happy, or at least quit selling? Anyone that owns a timeshare, unnecessary appliance or kitchen ware bought at a trade show, or owns something that you never used and regret buying; raise your hand. Feel silly raising your hand by yourself as you read this don’t you? The answer is ‘no’ even though you just said ‘yes’ to yourself. We are told ‘no’ all of our lives, well most of us without the exceptionally blessed that well, probably are not reading this anyway. Whether you try to get a loan, job, ask someone out, had an idea, were ever a kid you have become accustomed to hearing ‘no’ just not saying ‘no.’ Instead, we would rather suffer in silence than ruffle the feathers of someone else’s world. We bend over backwards to make others happy without realizing it, much less the right intention. The path of least resistance seems to be the easier to take. It is easier to over […]
